When you first begin to read tarot for yourself, it can feel overwhelming. Now that you’ve followed your calling or curiosity to pick up a tarot deck and start reading for yourself, it might feel exciting or like a huge responsibility. How do you know which questions to ask? What if you get a response that’s negative or confusing? The cards will make themselves known to you, and when you ask questions, you’ll receive answers. Sometimes, the answers can challenge your understanding, disappoint you, and leave you feeling more lost. The quality of your questions will dictate the quality of your answers. 

 

 

Why Asking Your Tarot Cards The Right Questions Matters

 

You want to ask questions that don't engage your conscious mind to jump to an answer and instead engage your intuition to guide you. Yes or no questions can also be limiting. If you ask something too specific, you might limit the answers you can receive. It can be easy to get carried away and impose our will onto the cards, seeing only what we want to see. For example, asking your deck, “Is this person my soulmate?” might leave you feeling confused or tied to the answer you think you’re seeing. Instead, ask, “What is this relationship teaching me right now?” you’ll get clearer guidance and an answer that’s more likely to open your eyes to new possibilities. As a beginner, it's important to start your journey with this in mind.

The tarot asks us to open ourselves and release attachments to specific outcomes. The more you can surrender, the clearer the messages. There will be times when you’ll be too close to a situation to read for yourself, and in these cases, I recommend getting a professional reading or taking a break from reading for yourself. The type of frustrated loop you can enter from asking the same questions, pulling the same cards, and trying to interpret messages over and over is not conducive to growth or healing.

Before diving in, I recommend first refreshing and purifying your tarot cards and then shuffling them thoroughly to ensure you start your reading session off in the best way.

 

 

Questions to Ask About Love

 

1. How can I bring more love into my life?

 

We are all love at our core. Our life experiences, challenges, and circumstances can make feeling that love difficult at times. Love can be a state of awareness. It can mean loving and supportive relationships beyond romantic love and partnership. Bringing more love into your life might mean spiritual fulfillment or being in a state of flow. The cards you draw in answer to this question might point you in the direction of creativity, curiosity, or a need to rest. In a recent reading, I drew the seven of pentacles for a client who was feeling burned out. It was a clear message to take a step back from work. The next card, the three of cups, pointed to friendships that bring fulfillment and joy. She told me she was recently invited to join a group of old friends for a spiritual retreat, this was a clear message to say yes to that trip. 

 

2. What does the universe want me to know about how I am expanding my capacity to love?

 

You have unlimited capacity to love. Love is an infinite resource, and you don't need to chase or bargain for it. On your spiritual journey, you might constantly be expanding your capacity to love. Often, the most heartbreaking situations can expand our capacity. As Rumi says, “The wound is where the light enters.” In a client reading, the cards that came up in answer to this question were the five of wands and the three of swords. The client was navigating a difficult relationship with her teenage daughter. The struggle she experienced with her daughter was stretching her heart in new ways. For everything painful we go through, we expand our capacity to love.  

 

3. What is a sign that I am in the most loving state possible? 

 

When you are in a loving state, you might feel free, expansive, and unlimited. It’s common for us to question the love we are feeling. Sometimes, it seems as though we are constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. Remember that feeling joy is also part of doing the work. This question can be answered in many ways. You might experience a feeling, or perhaps there is a more tangible sign or synchronicity that points you in the right direction. I have a client who was in the process of moving to another country and changing careers. I pulled the page of pentacles and saw a vision of her spending time in nature. The deck I was using had a tiny hawk in the foreground, and I mentioned it to her. She told me she’d been experiencing hawk sightings. At first, she questioned the sightings, but over time, they seemed to correspond with her choices, like a gentle nudge or encouragement from the Universe at every turn. Sometimes, the tarot can be quite literal! 

 

4. What blocks or challenges am I overcoming in my journey to experience more love? 

 

When we feel blocked, it’s usually because there is something that we are unable or unwilling to look at. Asking your tarot cards to show you blocks and challenges can unlock a perspective shift. Pointing to an area of your life where you have the potential to grow can help you move forward. When you ask this question, assume something will be revealed to you; it’s often an “ah-ha moment.” I pulled the ten of swords for myself when I asked this question and heard “release.” I am learning to release control. As it applies to my life as the mother of two teenage boys I constantly worry over, it made perfect sense. 

 

5. When it comes to love, what is my greatest superpower? 

 

Often, the thing we think is lacking can be our greatest asset. I read for a client who asked this question, and I pulled the Page of Cups. I instantly knew the message and asked her if she felt she was “too sensitive” and asked her if there was now someone in her life who wanted her to show more emotion. She explained that as a child, she often felt she had to hide emotions and pretend to be happy to feel like she belonged. In her current relationship, she felt pressured by her partner to open up more and be vulnerable but was hesitant to be seen as overly emotional. She ultimately decided to take the risk and share her feelings with her partner. I could see the relief wash over her as she decided to give herself permission to be herself. 

 

 

Questions to Ask About Life

 

6. What are the next steps I can take to align with my life purpose? 

 

Our purpose is not to do or be one thing. Our purpose is to be ourselves, fully and freely, as much as possible while we are here. Thinking about your life purpose can be overwhelming. When you ask this question, consider how you might discover a deeper meaning in your life. Remember that the answers might not always make sense to you at first. Asking for the next steps in your journey rather than the final destination can help keep things in perspective. 

 

7. In the story of my life, what adventure can I write into it? 

 

This is a great question to ask when you’ve been feeling restless or bored. Those feelings could be your intuition nudging you to break out of familiar patterns and experience something new. Let the cards inspire or guide you toward adventure. This doesn’t have to mean turning your life upside down. Small changes like exploring a new hobby, interest, or curiosity can break through blocks and help rebalance you. 

 

8. What is my soul experiencing at this point in my life’s journey?

 

Your soul holds all the wisdom of everyone you’ve ever been and everyone you’ll ever be. Your soul is here to guide you through this life and help you realize your potential. Pay attention to any cards you draw when asking this question. If your soul feels out of alignment with what's happening in your life, that is powerful information. From there, you can create changes that support you. 

 

9. What does the spirit world want me to know about the story of my life? 

 

I don't believe the future is set in stone. I do believe there are themes, challenges, and potentials for us to experience. When I’m reading for a client, I have the perspective of being able to zoom out on the story of their life. This can give valuable perspective. Things that seem so important now may be inconsequential to your overall journey. This question can help highlight what you may be missing about the bigger picture. 

 

10. What lessons am I here to learn? 

 

Looking at life’s challenges can be an empowering way to view your journey and struggles. I don't believe that every trauma “happens for a reason.” Sometimes terrible things happen, and we don’t have an explanation. However, I do believe we come to this life with a set of challenges to overcome. We have free will along the way. Thinking about what you’ve overcome in the past can give you a clue as to what some of your obstacles may be. When you go through something difficult and are able to see your growth and progress, it can build your confidence and self of self worth. 

 

 

Questions to Ask For Beginners

 

11. Where should focus my intention today?

 

This is a great question to incorporate into your morning routine, especially if you pull one or two cards to start your day. Your intention is the greatest thing you have in creating changes in your life. What you choose to focus on will grow and affect how you experience the world. Intentions can shift your focus and change your thoughts. Your thoughts can change your emotions and behaviors. Sometimes, we can be unaware of what intention and focus would serve us best. Sy, for example, you’re feeling pressured to complete a creative project, and you have been focusing on being more disciplined. You might draw the three cups and feel inspired to lean into a collaboration, or you might draw The Hermit and decide that some solitary time will help your creative practice more than discipline. 

 

12. What lesson am I currently learning? 

 

Sometimes, life throws a lot at us, and we feel like we’re constantly bouncing from one challenge to the next. This question allows you to zoom out on your life. Take a temperature of what your current challenges are teaching you. I remember a time I was feeling so trapped in my situation and asked the spirit world and my tarot deck for guidance on what I could do differently. I pulled the two of swords and the eight of swords. I heard, “Make a choice. You’re not really trapped.” This gave me a perspective shift I needed to move forward without all the answers. Sometimes, making a decision (any decision) is the most empowering thing we can do. 

 

13. What do I need to know about my mind, body, and spirit? 

 

I love pulling three cards for this simple spread. Take a breath and clear your energy. Shuffle your deck and place three cards in front of you face up. The first card represents your mind, the next card represents your body, and the third card represents your spirit. This can give you insight into how your thoughts are affecting you. Your body isn’t only about health. It also represents the landscape of your emotions. Take note of any surprises or validations. Your spirit can represent your connection to the divine and your desires. If your soul is longing for something or feeling restricted by your circumstances, this will show up in the spirit card. 

 

14. What is affecting me most from my past, present, and future? 

 

This is similar to the mind, body, and spirit spread however, you’re pulling three cards for the past, present, and future instead. How we experience the world is greatly influenced by our past experiences and what we are currently going through. The past card can give you insight into what past experiences are influencing you. The present card might feel validating or surprising. It could illuminate things about the present you haven’t considered before. The future energy should be looked at strategically. For example, if you pull the tower at the beginning of the day, don't despair. You might instead be prepared for any challenges or changes to your schedule. There have been times I’ve pulled the tower, and then my client doesn’t show up for a session, or a class ends up being canceled. 

 

15. How can I experience more magic in my everyday life? 

 

Magic is everywhere and all around us. The more we pay attention to it the more it will be a presence in our life. If you pull the page of pentacles, the message might be to spend more time in nature or allow yourself to be a beginner. The empress could show you that there is magic for you in creative practice or learning how to receive graciously. The ten of swords might show you that there is magic in release or self-forgiveness. 

 

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Questions to Ask About Your Career & Money

 

16. What beliefs do I have about abundance that I’m ready to let go of? 

 

We all have beliefs about money and abundance that block us from receiving it. Especially spiritual folks or intuitive practitioners. It’s usually uncomfortable to ask for compensation for sharing our gifts. If you are reading this, you are not responsible for inventing money, and there is no moral reason to feel guilty about receiving more money for your work. In fact, an equal energy exchange will bring you peace and prosperity. If you feel resentful of your work, that’s usually a sign it’s time to ask for more. Once you realize what beliefs you have that are ready to be shed, you may feel lighter and more empowered. 

 

17. What skills do I possess that I’m not currently using?

 

Very few people utilize all their skills. In fact, most people experience some form of imposter syndrome at some point in their life. Usually, this is a sign that we care deeply about the work. This question can allow you to see what skills you possess that you’re not currently using. If you pull the two of pentacles, that could mean there is a chance to find a better balance in your work. Maybe you are meant to lead your team toward harmony and resolution or play the mediator. If you pull the six of wands, it could mean that you might do better taking the credit for your ideas, public speaking or stepping out of your comfort zone. 

 

18. What part of my work can I outsource to someone else or ask for support?

 

Asking for help or outsourcing the parts of our work that we dread can lead us to greater productivity. If you struggle with administrative tasks and pull the eight of pentacles, this could mean it’s time to invest in an assistant. You might be more effective and abundant by hiring someone to help you. If you’ve been doing things the same way for a long time and it’s not working, and you pull the six of swords, that could mean taking things in a new direction. 

 

19. Who or what can I call in for strength?

 

Mentorship can make all the difference in your career. If you have a mentor, are seeking one, or would like more guidance, this question can point you in the right direction. Sometimes, you might need to look inward, and you might pull the High Priestess or the Ace of Wands. Or, you might need to ask the Spirit World for their help. You are never truly alone. Learning to ask for help and accept support is a skill that will serve you. 

 

20. In which ways do I not see myself accurately? What is my professional superpower? 

 

Most of us do not see ourselves accurately. We tend to focus mostly on our flaws or challenges. This question will allow you to take a new perspective on the way you see yourself at work. Chances are other people admire things about you that you aren’t even aware of. Maybe you’re a great listener, an effective communicator, or a great support to others. Lean into your professional superpower. 

 

 

Questions to Ask About Your Ex-Partner

 

21. What did that past relationship teach me about myself?

 

Relationships are one of the greatest teachers we have in this lifetime. Sometimes, they are not always meant to last a lifetime. With every relationship, good or bad, we learn something about ourselves that we can use to improve our future relationships. Even learning about what you don't want or won’t tolerate is a lesson. I’ve had relationships that taught me about boundaries, friendship, and loyalty. It’s not always comfortable, but it's an essential part of our journey. 

 

22. What did my past relationship teach me about love?

 

Love is a word that means different things to different people. I like M Scott Peck’s definition of love as it is referenced and explained in “All About Love: New Visions” by Bell Hooks. 

“The idea that we choose to act in love strongly supports the belief that love is an action and that it is not always instinctual or restful. I believe it is a dedication requiring us to show up fully even when it is hard, and that justice and truth need to be part of the equation.”

If love is an action, what does it mean to act in love? What did your last relationship teach you about the actions we take to be invested spiritually in another person? 

23. How can I support my heart as I move forward? 

 

Sometimes, moving on from a breakup, especially a recent one, can be heartbreaking. Asking what your heart needs and giving that to yourself is one of the most loving things you can do. This could be nurturing. You might pull the Ace of Cups, the Moon, or The Empress. Or, it might be movement and energy and you pull the Ace of Swords, The Sun, The Three of Pentacles. 

 

24. What do I still need to release when it comes to the past?

 

When you’re ready, you’ll want to reflect on past relationships and release anything that’s no longer serving you. This question can bring to light ways you may want to forgive yourself or others. It may point you towards letting go and moving forward without some of the emotional baggage we all carry from past relationships. This is especially true if you feel you’ve been wronged or regret your choices. This could mean forgiving yourself for what you weren’t ready to see at the time. You might draw The Devil, Seven of Cups, or Eight of Swords. If you pull a loving card like The Lovers, The Two of Cups, or Four of Wands, it could be that you need to release an attachment to the relationship. When you ask this question, be open to the answer, and try not to read into the cards in a way that rejects the question altogether. For example, asking this question and pulling The Two of Cups wouldn't be interpreted as a sign to rekindle the relationship. 

25. What was nourishing and supportive about that partnership that I’d like to cultivate in the future? 

 

Even in the most toxic relationships there is some lesson to be learned about what we want. This could be the initial spark that drew you in. Perhaps the person made you feel seen and validated. You might have learned something valuable about yourself and your capacity to give. The Hermit could mean that you’ve learned that you value time spent alone in relationships as a way to renew. The Six of Swords could mean that you’ve learned how to stand up for yourself and take yourself out of a difficult situation. 

Questions to Ask About Yourself

 

26. What is a story I’m telling myself that’s disempowering? 

 

We are often unaware of the stories we tell ourselves. Our thoughts present us with false narratives, and our past experiences can dictate what we believe, and how we see ourselves can often be distorted. In a session, I asked this question for a client and drew the eight of Pentacles. My client was very devoted to her work and put a lot of pressure on herself. After seeing this card, I asked her if she felt that all her projects had to be perfect in order to be successful. What would happen if she allowed herself to show up and make mistakes? She reflected that she felt immense pressure since childhood to impress people. The way the tarot answers this question can allow you to reflect on how you see yourself and if it’s truly empowering you. 

 

27. What are your deepest desires?

 

Desires come from your soul and can be a road map towards living a freer life. I recently asked myself this question after the New Year and pulled the five of cups. At first, I felt confused because of the nature of the five of cups being that of a loss. Who would desire that? After reflecting on it the answer became clear. There were changes I was debating making that involved ending a professional relationship. I was afraid of the consequences of it and the loss I would feel, even though it was ultimately the best thing for me. Sometimes, our desire is to let go, even when it hurts. 

 

28. What does the spirit world want me to know about my unique gifts? 

 

We all come into this world with unique abilities—some we may not discover until later in life. Before becoming a professional psychic medium, I worked at a corporate job for almost twenty years. When I asked this question of my tarot deck, I pulled the King of Cups (love and compassion) and The Queen of Swords (perception and intellect). These opposing cards made sense to me. Love and compassion is what allows me to be successful in mediumship, and my analytical mind is what supports managing a business and has helped me in my past career. Sometimes, the Spirit World will want to point out your abilities that you’re not acknowledging for some reason. This message can be very timely. 

 

29. What is blocking you from going after what you want? 

 

Sometimes, we have unconscious blocks that affect our confidence and how we go after what we want. In a reading for a friend, I pulled two cards in answer to this question: the Three of Wands and Three of Cups. Immediately, I saw my friend's three siblings surrounding them. They shared that they feel they have held themselves back from exploring certain creative abilities because, traditionally that had been the role of another person in their family. The three of wands pointed to what could be possible for them if they were willing to break out of the familiar pattern they were in and go for it. They admitted that they had an offer to collaborate with another artist and were procrastinating on getting back to them. This specific question and the cards drawn ended up answering a very important question that was heavy on their heart. Once they were aware of the block, they were able to see how they held themselves back. 

 

30. Which part of my life requires me to take a greater risk? 

 

Sometimes, taking a calculated risk is the only way to get what we most desire. Telling someone how you really feel, applying for a job, starting therapy, going on a date, or speaking up for yourself are a few risks that require a leap of faith. If you pull the Ace of Wands in answer to this question, it might point to taking more risks with your ideas and passions. If you pulled the High Priestess, it could mean paying greater attention to following what your intuition is telling you. 

Questions to Ask About Your Crush

 

31. What about this person draws me in? 

 

Webster's dictionary defines a crush as an intense and usually passing infatuation. have a crush on someone. also: the object of infatuation. Usually, when we are infatuated with someone, there is a quality in them that we are reflecting on ourselves. We might project our ideas and feelings onto a person we barely know. Usually, this feeling is hard to ignore so it’s worth excavating. This question can tell you what quality that person possesses that you find so attractive. So, if you drew the eight of wands or the magician, it could be a certain magnetism or confidence. You might consider how you could build confidence in your own life by taking action towards your goals. Crushes are a natural part of life, and learning about your motivations can be empowering. 

 

32. How should I move forward in initiating this relationship? 

 

This is a great question to ask yourself if you want to move forward with meeting your crush or telling them how you feel. If you pull the King of Cups, you might decide to be honest, loving, and sincere. If you pull the seven of cups (delusion, denial, confusion), you might decide to wait until things become clearer before you proceed. Whatever the answer to this question follow your intuition. You are the ultimate source of knowing and power in your life.

 

33. What am I missing in my life that I can give to myself? 

 

A crush can sometimes signify that we feel a lack of something in our everyday lives. This is a completely normal human experience, and having a crush is nothing to feel insecure about. If you feel a sense of lack in your life, you might want to ask your tarot deck this question to gain clarity. The three of cups could signify a longing for friendships and connection. The Moon could signify a lack of nurturing. Finding a way to give what you lack to yourself can be empowering. 

 

34. What is the energy around expressing my feelings? 

 

Depending on your situation, you might decide you want to express your feelings to your crush. This question looks at the future energy and potential of that decision. It can be very challenging to tune into something we desperately want, so I advise you to try and look at the answer to this question with as much un-attachment as possible. When we are attached to a certain outcome, it can be difficult to see things clearly. The cards you draw will guide you. For example, the four of swords would be an invitation to wait and see how things progress and to have patience. The page of cups could point to some naivety you possess in the situation. I once asked this question for a client and pulled The Chariot and The Fool. The message there was, “What are you waiting for? Take a leap of faith; say how you feel!” 

 

35. How will I know if my feelings are reciprocated? 

 

It’s vulnerable to imagine telling another person how we feel, especially when you consider that your feelings could be unrequited. This is a normal part of life, and unrequited feelings are something that everyone alive will experience, yet not everyone talks about it. If you find yourself in this situation, I’m sending you a gentle hug and a reminder that you are worthy and deserving of love just as you are. So when you ask this question of your deck, do so with open curiosity. The seven of swords may point out that you don’t have an accurate read on the situation or you’re not able to be honest with yourself right now. Alternatively, the Four of Pentacles may urge you to keep an open mind and stop trying to control the situation. 

Questions to Ask About Relationships & Marriage

 

36. What do I love about my partner that is also a challenge in our relationship? 

 

A common juxtaposition that we experience in close relationships is that the very thing that draws us to our partner can begin to annoy or trigger us over time. Someone that you were drawn to because of their outgoing personality might feel invasive or like “too much” when you’re feeling introverted. Someone whose intellect you admired in the beginning could make you feel insecure from time to time. You could worry that they don't value your insights and ideas. Learning from each other in relationships is how we grow, and being triggered or annoyed by our closest relationships is normal. The answer to this question could point out a trigger to you that you may decide to hold with curiosity. Simply acknowledging this can bring more harmony into your relationship.  

 

37. What energy do I bring to the partnership most often?

 

I love this question for getting clear on our role in the relationship. Over time, our roles can change, and having self-awareness can lead to more intimacy and trust. When we take responsibility for what we bring to the table, we can be better communicators and more loving partners overall. I recently asked this question about my own relationship and pulled the Page of Swords. My wife and I have been doing a lot of strategizing and planning together in preparation for a new puppy we’re planning to bring home in a few weeks. This was a gentle reminder that our conversations have become very focused on that planning stage and leaving little room for anything else. 

 

38. What phase is this relationship growing into? 

 

Some of the best advice my therapist ever gave me was to surrender to the phase that a relationship is in. Rather than try to control the feelings and flow of energy, enjoy the quiet seasons or roll with the times of chaos and excitement. When we can see a relationship as a journey, it’s easier to surrender and see where things go. The Five of Pentacle could point to a relationship that’s headed into a stressful or anxious time. If you pull this card, you might think about what needs to be addressed. If you already know, you could be proactive in giving yourself love and seeking support.  The two of pentacles would signify a relationship that’s becoming more balanced and harmonious. 

 

39. What would allow me to best communicate with my partner? 

 

It takes time to learn what works best for communication in a relationship. When my wife and I have any time of argument or disagreement my instinct is to hurry up and finish the conversation and resolve things. I dislike the feeling of conflict or even possible conflict. Her communication style is that she becomes quiet and thoughtful, giving me space or seeking a solution. It took me a while to figure this out. In the beginning, I felt unsettled about her quiet and feared it meant she was withdrawing from the conversation altogether. The two of swords drawn in response to the question could be that you need to be more assertive and direct. The ten of cups might mean being more loving in your communication. The nine of wands would mean standing your ground and standing up for yourself. 

 

40. What is the past life connection we have together? 

 

Most clients I connect with believe in past lives. I believe we have a soul family that we travel together with over many lifetimes. If you feel a strong past-life connection to your partner, you could ask this question and see if the card or cards you draw validate that feeling. I asked this question of my tarot deck about my wife and I’s relationship while writing this article and pulled the Judgement card. My wife and I didn’t meet until we were in our forties and had gone through many life struggles and self actualization before we met. I took this message as validation of that, feeling like we both had to overcome certain obstacles and become our true selves before we met another lifetime. As an experiment, I asked the same question about my ex and pulled the three of pentacles. I smiled at how this made perfect sense. We have always been great friends and worked so collaboratively together to raise our kids.  

 

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Questions to Ask About Friendship

 

41. What has my friend come into my life to teach me? 

 

I have a friend who says, “Everything we are meant to experience comes into our life through a relationship or a situation.” I’ve found this to be true of all my friendships to a degree. Relationships are often our most powerful teachers. In a loving relationship, you might draw the King of Cups or the Empress. Perhaps the relationship is teaching you how to love and accept love. In more complicated relationships, The Queen of Cups could teach you about co-dependency and boundary setting. 

 

42. What qualities do I possess that support my friendship? 

 

In every relationship that we’re in, we bring something to it. You likely have qualities that your friend is drawn to that you may not even be aware of. I pulled the three of swords in response to this question with one of my closest friends. I was puzzled at first. The three of swords often represent a broken heart, and we have a very loving and supportive relationship. After considering it for a few moments, I realized that my friend and I had shared similar traumatic experiences in life. We are able to bond over and support each other in difficult times. This made sense. 

 

43. What am I learning in this relationship that will help me on my journey?

 

Of course, we don’t look at friendship as a means to get from one part of our journey to the other. We often care deeply about and love our friends, and they can be some of the most meaningful relationships we’ll have. However, sometimes a friendship is directly related to your life’s path and may teach you something valuable about your journey. Years ago I had a friendship that was deep and meaningful but consistently asked more of me than I could comfortably give. I never felt like I was doing enough for my friends and couldn’t give them what they needed. This friendship ended up teaching me about boundaries and how to be loyal to myself. I don’t think I’d be the friend or partner I am today without going through some of those difficult lessons. 

 

44. Where can I adjust the boundaries of my friendship? 

 

True friendships where we are able to connect deeply and bare our souls require us to set boundaries. For example, if your friend needs a loan, will you give it to them? Would you expect to be repaid? How about if they are going through a difficult time and need to speak on the phone several times a day? That might be okay for a while, but eventually, you might need to change the boundaries. What if your friend loses their home and needs somewhere to stay? These are all extreme examples that I’ve encountered in friendships. You might ask this question when you feel resentful of a friend and don't know why. Perhaps you pull the hermit and decide you need a bit of space, or you draw the moon and feel that certain topics you’ve been discussing lately feel off-limits. 

 

45. How can I express a greater love and support for my friend? 

 

I believe love is a verb, something that we show up and give or small actions we take. When we love someone, we act in love. Everyone likes to express love and receive love in different ways. You might have heard of the five love languages: acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, or receiving gifts. These are set in stone, but they are an example of the different ways we all like to show and receive love. Consider these love languages as a guide for interpreting the cards you draw if it’s not immediately obvious. You can also consider what areas of your friendship you feel called to express more love and ask a follow-up question: why do I feel this is difficult? Easy? 

Questions to Ask About The Future

 

46. What is the future energy around my home? 

 

When you ask this question, get clear with yourself about what it means to you and the timeline you’re asking about. Are you considering relocating? Do you live with family? If your family includes children or pets, that will affect the answer to this question. Having peace and harmony in my home greatly affects my sense of well-being; without it, I would struggle to do my work or hold space for other people. Right now, this question would involve a lot of moving parts for me. I have two almost adult children, and my wife and I are about to bring home a puppy. We are considering a move (possibly abroad) in the next few years. Her dream is to live in the UK, and I feel open to seeing what changes or adventures might occur. For this article, I drew two cards for this question, and was clear that I am asking about the next six months. I pulled the seven of pentacles (putting in hard work, time, and effort) and The High Priestess (trusting your intuition). These cards together signified to me that I should lean on my inner knowing and trust my instincts rather than try to control and coordinate everything over the next few months with a new puppy and two teenagers. I’m sure things are going to feel hectic.

 

47. What is my soul longing to plan for a future adventure? 

 

I love this question, especially during times when you feel the call to travel, adventure, or try something new. Cards that mean travel could be the Chariot, the three of wands, eight of wands, or the World. If you think of your life as a journey, what adventure can you write into your story? I was reading for a client who shared that she was unsatisfied with her life even though she was financially successful and had the job of her dreams. We pulled the King of Cups and two of swords in response to this question. I asked her if she was struggling to make a choice when it came to love or matters of the heart, what was she most afraid to do? She shared that she was struggling with deciding to let her friends set her up on a date. When we discussed dating as an adventure, something that her soul was longing to experience that resonated with her and she felt more willing to give it a chance. 

48. In a year from now, what will I be glad I took a risk on? 

 

Zooming out on your life and taking a look at the bigger picture can be empowering. There will be small habits every day that you’ll be glad you stuck with. There may also be chances that you’ll thank yourself for. Taking a leap of faith can feel vulnerable, but it’s necessary for our growth. Most of what you have that you appreciate in your life was probably achieved because you took some risks. Sometimes, risks can feel big and exciting, and sometimes, they can pinpoint our inner feelings and the way we approach things. For example, the six of pentacles and six of swords could mean taking a new approach with family members. The king of wands and the Hermit could mean starting the spiritual business you’ve been dreaming of. 

 

49. In a year from now, what will I wish I spent more time doing? 

 

This question points to the habits and routines that support us in our everyday lives. This could be your morning routine, sleep habits, or self-care. It could also mean spending time with the people you love or doing things that make you feel alive. In a reading where I pull the Lovers in answer to this question, it could mean spending time working on balance in a relationship. The eight of swords could mean spending time working to manage anxiety or even starting and sticking with therapy. Judgment might mean pursuing a higher calling or learning about spiritual topics. 

 

50. What is the most empowering step I can take towards my future goals? 

 

Taking the first step toward our goals and aspirations can be overwhelming. This question can point to what is right now within your control. It can show you how you can begin. If your goal is to achieve more inner peace and harmony and you pull the Ace of Cups, you might take that as an invitation to be more present in your life and embrace new beginnings. If your goal is work-oriented and you pull the Queen of Wands, this means saying yes to more things that excite you, buying yourself some flowers, and embracing an abundance mindset.

 

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Takeaways

 

Your tarot deck is an intuitive tool. Your cards are an extension of your energy, and the answers you divine will be a mirror of your life and circumstances. If you’re going through a particularly difficult time, it can be beneficial to take a break from reading for yourself. The tarot not only mirrors our energy, it can show us the way forward if we are willing to see it. There are always choices we can make that will elevate us. Remember that you are the ultimate authority in your life, and you have the power to make the most empowering decisions that serve you.